UnNamed Relations.....!!

"It is always easy to start a relation with somebody but it is more difficult to maintain it........"

Yeah.... that's the truth.The word "relation" is rather complicated as it seems very beautiful, only if you omit the relation that we name "Enemy". So friends please ignore this word here and I would try to explain something about other relations except this.

Do you think that we need to name some relations? Sometimes it happens that we are not able to find out the exact answer of this question..."what is this yaar... what is between me and him/her? I am not able to explain..." Some people answer this question foolishly and say "Its Love...". Very funny... Love... How easy to say na.... but how difficult to handle that. OK friends I am not going to talk about Love here... because its a very old and boring thing to talk about. I am here to write about a "relation" in general. So I come back to my questions...."relations should be named or not.." yeah I think its right to call some person "a friend"..."girlfriend"..."boyfriend"... "Son"..."brother"...."sister"...."love"..."mother.." father".... So many relations we have in our life and we are handling them.


But even their are some relations that cant be named...I say "its not Love..!" because you have already named it as LOVE. Can there be some person in your life who is more than a relative(all relations that we talk here about...) to you. Then what is that? can you answer that thing? We generally call it friends. But I feel if we are calling them friends then what about the relation we have? What-ever...leave it ..
Now i want to say that if we start a relation with somebody then we are very happy and as we get more closer to him/her,we get bored or we have nothing to say more about that. But meanwhile, sometimes it is observed that we are not able to handle this as we had thought before starting.It might be some misunderstanding (remember I am only talking about happy relations not about those we are not happy with because they end very soon..) or some obstacles faced by the person in his/her life that forced him/her to change himself/herself and as a result He/She gets dis-attached with that relation. Even their are some people who understands these things and try to manage all things. But I belief.. How long a single person in a relationship of two can try to manage all things..? We cant clap with single hand... We need the other.In the same way the other person must also understands the feelings of that person who is trying to manage between them.


I would like to message all my readers. My this post is for all relations in this world. I would like to say to you that .."If conditions are there then change yourself but never change your heart and your feelings because It hurts the other person." If you are trying to change your life style then its OK and make your relation to know about it and make him/her comfort that your feelings for that relation have not been changed. It will always make you and the other happy in your life.
Last but not the least...I would also write some nice lines from my heart...

"Every close and good relation starts with friendship... and the friendship is the key thing in every relation."

"Every relation needs some time to build up... cant say how much... But it is..! So every relation needs patience along with friendly and loving heart.SO we should never give up in all cases.Try till it lasts..one day you will find it and always try to make others happy...It generates positive rays around you and make others feel positive too about you.."

"Remember small difficulties and quarrels are part of a good and healthy relation.. so always try to solve them calmly and be supportive...even If other person is not interested then try to make him/her comfort that you are always with him/her..GOOD LUCK"

GOOD LUCK"

The desire will continue...!!