We learn from experiences....

After a very very long time.. (its more than a year).. I am writing something here, my friends. I feel, I spent this time to experience a very different aspect of life and learned a lot. That's why I am sharing something that I learnt from my experiences.


We, the people of India, are very emotional kind of a persons and we have a lot of feelings inside us. That's why I believe Indians are very touching. We remember every bad and happy moment of our life. We smile to remember the good times and sometimes tears are fallen from our eyes to remember the bad times of our lives. But only a few persons are really able to manage their life and making it better day by day. I believe these are the personalities who always try to learn from their past experiences whatever it is, its good or bad.

I have completed one and half years in my corporate life. I learnt a lot; professionally as well as personally. I do not like to talk much about my profession here. I would like to share the things that relate to my personal feelings. Last one and half years have been very memorable to me and means a lot to me. This time taught me a lot as I felt that I have grown up now. I met some very good people around me and meeting with such great personalities has helped me a lot to become a mature person.

I am enjoying a lot my time... and wish it continues forever. I found that the Idea of the life is to live happy and let the other make happy. We should be able to find happiness inside us instead of finding it in others, because a person who is happy, can only make his surroundings full of happiness.




When we grow up, our approach changes gradually. We met so many people around us, some of them are good and some are not good. The good people always create some positive energy around them and this energy grows exponentially if they are happy and able to make happy to others also. Bad people always create negative energies around them and hence not able to make happy to others. That's why people don't like them.

Now when I come to the point of feelings and emotions inside us, we have some emotions that create positive energies inside us, and some create negative energies. For example.. happiness, love, friendships etc are some emotions that create positive energies. On the other hand, hatred, jealousy, sadness are the examples of negative energies.

As per my experience of life, I have faced both kind of energies. Some people like me. and some don't. It doesn't matter for me, because its their choice. This idea again helps me to face the negative energies, because if I continue thinking about why a particular person does not like me... eventually I am putting myself into a thought that is going to create negative energies around me.



I want to summarize my experience of life in few worlds :
" I always tried hard to create positive energies around me and work with them so that I can defeat the negative energies. But my friends, I found that the world has more of negative energies. It was my bad luck that this idea didn't work. I lost all of my positive energies. So I decided, to recreate them inside me and let the life go in its way, ignore the negative energies, let them fall..... always tried to find my happiness inside me. Thus I found the happiest person of this world inside me, who always makes me happy. "


Friends, choice is yours.....be emotional and find your happiness inside others, or be practical and find your happiness inside you.


The desire will continue.....

UnNamed Relations.....!!

"It is always easy to start a relation with somebody but it is more difficult to maintain it........"

Yeah.... that's the truth.The word "relation" is rather complicated as it seems very beautiful, only if you omit the relation that we name "Enemy". So friends please ignore this word here and I would try to explain something about other relations except this.

Do you think that we need to name some relations? Sometimes it happens that we are not able to find out the exact answer of this question..."what is this yaar... what is between me and him/her? I am not able to explain..." Some people answer this question foolishly and say "Its Love...". Very funny... Love... How easy to say na.... but how difficult to handle that. OK friends I am not going to talk about Love here... because its a very old and boring thing to talk about. I am here to write about a "relation" in general. So I come back to my questions...."relations should be named or not.." yeah I think its right to call some person "a friend"..."girlfriend"..."boyfriend"... "Son"..."brother"...."sister"...."love"..."mother.." father".... So many relations we have in our life and we are handling them.


But even their are some relations that cant be named...I say "its not Love..!" because you have already named it as LOVE. Can there be some person in your life who is more than a relative(all relations that we talk here about...) to you. Then what is that? can you answer that thing? We generally call it friends. But I feel if we are calling them friends then what about the relation we have? What-ever...leave it ..
Now i want to say that if we start a relation with somebody then we are very happy and as we get more closer to him/her,we get bored or we have nothing to say more about that. But meanwhile, sometimes it is observed that we are not able to handle this as we had thought before starting.It might be some misunderstanding (remember I am only talking about happy relations not about those we are not happy with because they end very soon..) or some obstacles faced by the person in his/her life that forced him/her to change himself/herself and as a result He/She gets dis-attached with that relation. Even their are some people who understands these things and try to manage all things. But I belief.. How long a single person in a relationship of two can try to manage all things..? We cant clap with single hand... We need the other.In the same way the other person must also understands the feelings of that person who is trying to manage between them.


I would like to message all my readers. My this post is for all relations in this world. I would like to say to you that .."If conditions are there then change yourself but never change your heart and your feelings because It hurts the other person." If you are trying to change your life style then its OK and make your relation to know about it and make him/her comfort that your feelings for that relation have not been changed. It will always make you and the other happy in your life.
Last but not the least...I would also write some nice lines from my heart...

"Every close and good relation starts with friendship... and the friendship is the key thing in every relation."

"Every relation needs some time to build up... cant say how much... But it is..! So every relation needs patience along with friendly and loving heart.SO we should never give up in all cases.Try till it lasts..one day you will find it and always try to make others happy...It generates positive rays around you and make others feel positive too about you.."

"Remember small difficulties and quarrels are part of a good and healthy relation.. so always try to solve them calmly and be supportive...even If other person is not interested then try to make him/her comfort that you are always with him/her..GOOD LUCK"

GOOD LUCK"

The desire will continue...!!

Every Person is a Philosopher.....!

"Every person is a philosopher in himself or herself. But the difference stands in the way they think."

The experience of each person's life makes him or her to think about philosophy. I am also a kind of philosopher who thinks in his own way and now is trying to expose his philosophy here out.Nobody is happy in his/her life and starts thinking about its solutions and when he/she does not get any result, he/she opens www.google.com and searches for some motivational thoughts or pictures that can help him/her a little bit. It's true friends, I have seen many persons doing so. As a search result we get many motivational thoughts. But it is not necessary that the thought we liked, will also be liked by our friends. It might be possible that he/she likes some other thought.Why it is So? I belief it is because of the philosopher's thinking inside us. we only like the thought that our heart accepts. Now friends , after reading my article try to do this:-" do not go for google and try to write down your own thought". I am sure that you will write down a very good one and it would mean the same that Mr. XYZ ( a great philosopher) would have written. Friends! it is very easy to write some philosophy, because philosophy is the part of life and we face or follow it in some direct or indirect manner. I am not a philosophy expert but I can also write down some motivational thoughts in my own way that might really mean to somebody who is reading my article and it may be possible that somebody says "Deepak has gone mad, He has no sense of writing". But I never mind. I like to write so I am writing here.
The Desire will continue....

Its Not Easy.........

Hey Friends...!

I never thought of creating a blog and sharing my experiences to the World. Today I am going to start what I was thinking to do from last two years. I learned a lot in these days. I found a deep imagination for the life, a word to which each person tries to understand and never gets a definite result. So I am doing the same thing. I am also trying to understand this typical word which is not always easy. Some Body told me "A problem becomes more larger if you think about it but its nothing if you never think about it". Same way life is nothing if you never think about it but if you do, it becomes a damn ocean whose depth we can not calculate without traversing through it. And first we start traversing , we cant get out of it.

The Desire Will Continue...